Back in 2009, when we started this blog, we had about 6 followers. I thought I would re-share some of our favorite or most popular posts. :) Enjoy this great post by Lisa!
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What Color are You On? Guaranteed Help with Communicating!
{Originally posted on February 27, 2010}
Has this ever happened to you?
Something exciting happened to you, or maybe you learned something new. You are about to burst to share it. The person you want to share it with is on RED. You share it anyway. Then you are really disappointed, because they didn’t listen. It wasn’t that your loved one was mad, in a bad mood, or doesn’t love you. They simply weren’t ready to listen.
Several years ago I listened to an audio book about being a good listener. I must share with you the color system that I learned. I’ve shared it with many friends. This system saves feelings from being hurt and time. Everyone I’ve ever shared it with, loves it.
If you need attention for an important matter start by asking the listener, “What color are you on?” If they don’t know the color system it gives you the perfect chance to share it.
RED - I don’t have a lot of time to listen. I’m busy. I don’t want to hurt your feelings, so please don’t tell me anything I need to remember. I NEVER share my heart with someone on RED. I make it short or I usually go back later.
YELLOW – I have a little time if you hurry, but don’t tell me your life story in order to ask a simple question. I NEVER share my heart with someone on YELLOW. I share information only and as quickly as possible.
GREEN – I have all the time in the world. Let’s go sit on the porch and talk. GREEN is the only time I share my heart.
I’ve learned to take expectations off of people that they should always be ready to listen. The other person usually likes the fact that I respect their time enough to ask “What color are you on?”. The system works well, especially on the phone when you can’t see their non-verbal cues.
What color are you on?
Love,
Lisa
