by Nif on December 1, 2009
There are a few things I have learned about parenting my soon-to-be-before-I-know-it teenager by working in public high schools for 10 years as a classroom teacher and 5 years as an administrator.
Here’s a few nuggets:
(these are sort of tongue-in-cheek, flavored with a dash of sarcasm and a heaping dose of reality)
1. Parents should not tell [...]
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by admin on November 5, 2009
Being a working mom is hard. There are many events that occur that working moms miss, and sometimes its not an event that we miss. Sometimes it’s just the “being there.” I am thankful that my own mother did not have to work when I was young. I realize now what a secure feeling it was [...]
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by Nif on October 29, 2009
Talking with a friend Tuesday night, she lamented a mother’s job. It’s up at 5am, get ready for work, get the kids off to school, pick up the kids, feed, bathe, homework, kids to bed, herself to bed at 11pm, and then do it all over again.
We often feel like a hamster in a wheel [...]
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by Nif on October 22, 2009
It is amazing how powerful habits are! Habits are those things that we do without thinking, like setting the alarm, brushing your teeth, feeding the dog, or in my case….driving a certain route to work. Here’s the story…
My youngest Dear Daughter left for camp Tuesday morning (all fifth graders at her school go for 3 nights), [...]
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by Nif on September 26, 2009
Last night I got home late from an Arbonne party, and Jenna, my ten-year old, had a friend over to spend the night and they were still awake. I went up to check on them, and she wanted to read her speech to me that she had written. She loves the environment and animals, so [...]
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by Nif on September 19, 2009
I have really begun to look forward to Saturdays. It’s a day off from work, it usually means watching a sporting event of one of my children, and on most Saturday nights we are with another family at our house or theirs.
I have another reason to look forward to Saturdays, and that’s the StrongMothers Saturday [...]
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Saturday Challenge
by Nif on September 4, 2009
I have a new blog that I am following – I feel like you will love it, too! Rachel at www.graspingforobjectivity.com writes a hilarious blog about everyday life. My favorite post is about “Mom Jeans and the Dreaded Long Butt.” Rachel and her friend Lydia performed a (ahem!) scientific experiment about jeans’ pocket placement. Any of [...]
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by Nif on September 1, 2009
I’m looking for ideas on motivating kids. My own kids.
We’ve been working our plan of setting boundaries, clear expectations, responsibilities to ensure ownership in our household, but there’s a lot of resistance that I guess I just didn’t expect. Some of it is passive aggressive behavior… like when my daughter does everything else possible to [...]
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As a mom, sometimes (most times) it seems like there is not enough time in the day! I have a great quote that I always think of when I feel like there’s not enough time, and it goes like this:
“There are 24 hours in a day. I don’t care what you do with yours; I’m [...]
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Think about situations that you, family members, or friends have been in where there were obstacles, setbacks, or trauma. What did you or your family member do in order to survive?
Many years ago, one of my very best friends was pregnant with her first child. In the first trimester, she miscarried, and came to [...]
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