The following review is by this week’s guest blogger, Susan Robie. There are two things she says that I really like…. she says, “Will I make a change?  Not sure.  But if I don’t, it’s not because I don’t know better.” She’s talking about making a change to a healthier lifestyle, but I think it could apply to lots of areas in our lives. Don’t you agree?

The second thing Susan mentions is the 80/20 rule: Susan writes, “She advises readers to follow the 80/20 rule, which advocates following her advice 80% of the time and giving in to your cravings the other 20%.” No matter what the areas of our lives, if we try to make too many changes at once, we are setting ourselves up to fail. For long-lasting change, take it step by step, only changing a few things at time.

Enjoy Susan’s review below!

Love,

Paula Owens Knows Her Stuff

by Susan Robie

 

Paula Owens knows her stuff.   As an expert in the field of holistic nutrition, she has read hundreds of articles from dozens of medical journals.  She reports her results clearly and succinctly in The Power of 4, a book that helps women move toward the “4”:  health, vitality, longevity, and fat loss by educating readers about nutrition, physical exercise, supplementation, and lifestyle.

Fair warning, you will be overwhelmed.  But Owens starts her book with a clear message:  work toward changing one or two bad habits a week.  She advises readers to follow the 80/20 rule, which advocates following her advice 80% of the time and giving in to your cravings the other 20%. 

Owens devotes chapters to topics such as sleep, drinking water, avoiding milk, reading food labels, dietary supplements, and getting the most out of your exercise.  In each chapter, Owens presents a good amount of information but helps the reader focus on the main ideas by adding charts and “winning formulas” at the end of each chapter.  

I’m not exactly a health nut.  Nowhere close.  And as I started reading the book, I got frustrated because Owens leaves out many links in the causal chain.  For example, she links dairy consumption directly to strep throat and claims that eliminating dairy will cure strep without telling exactly how.   But every good writer has a purpose; Owens’ purpose is to present the information that she finds critical to holistic health in a way that is accessible to every woman.   She provides detailed citations at the end of the books so that curious or skeptical readers can hear it straight from the horse’s mouth. 

And what she says makes sense.  As I read the chapter about sugar intake, I came across the list of symptoms of insulin resistance, a result of too much sugar.  I had 7 of the 10 symptoms. 

Will I make a change?  Not sure.  But if I don’t, it’s not because I don’t know better.  Owens begins and ends the book with the same challenge:  choose just two habits a week to change and see if you don’t feel better.   We owe it to ourselves to take her advice.

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You know, we’ve learned that posting on blogs is a funny thing. We’ve got lots of friends who read this blog and they make comments to us in person, and many made comments to us last week about the book, weight loss, nutrition…. but we only had 4 comments posted. We almost had only 3, but Sandy Frederick made it just in the nick of time.

We hope more of you will post comments in the future. We believe in your input, insight, and experiences. We want this to be a place for sharing, learning, supporting, and growing. Our tagline, “Sharing Our Stories, Sharing Our Strength,” sums up our belief – we’re better together, and we’re all in this together. Let’s help each other to be our very best – for ourselves and our children.

Our 4 wonderful readers who commented on the book giveaway are all winners of The Power of 4 by Paula Owens. Congratulations to Glenda, Jan, SueMac, and Sandy. (Please email your address to jenniferhogan@strongmothers.com and I will send you your new gift!) 

If you haven’t read Paula’s article, The Top Ten Foods to Avoid, I highly recommend it. Also, her radio interview is very informative.

Have a wonderful week!

Love,

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THE TOP TEN INGREDIENTS TO AVOID

by Nif on February 13, 2010

by Paula Owens, Nutritionist, Fitness Expert, and Weight Loss Coach

The majority of processed foods contain ingredients that are harmful and cause adverse health conditions and complaints.  If  you  include  packaged  foods  in  your diet, get  in  the habit of  reading  the  label, more specifically, the list of ingredients, and be aware of these ingredients.

1. HIGH FRUCTOSE CORN SYRUP: HFCS is the number one source of calories for most Americans and causes obesity. You’ll find high-fructose corn syrup in processed food, fruit drinks, fast food, sodas, syrup that goes into your Latte from Starbucks, gum, baked goods, etc. HFCS is extremely toxic to your liver, increases  inflammation,  causes  obesity,  oxidative  stress  and  creates  an  aggressive  insulin response, thus  contributing  to  type  II diabetes. Consumption of HFCS is linked to an increased risk of hypertension. In addition, there are high levels of mercury in food products sweetened with toxic HFCS. 

2.  PARTIALLY HYDROGENATED OILS (TRANS FATS): Partially hydrogenated oils are found in thousands of processed foods (breakfast cereals, cookies, chips, all CRAP food). Trans fats are proven to cause heart disease and contribute to obesity. Restaurant food, especially from fast food chains, often serve food loaded with trans fats. Consequences of a diet high in trans fats include:

  • Increased inflammation
  • Decreased immune function
  • Decreased testosterone
  • Arthritis
  • Cancer
  • Decrease IQ – learning disabilities.  American IQ has dropped 20 points in the past 20 years.
  • Diabetes
  • Elevated blood pressure
  • Free radical production
  • Heart Disease
  • Interferes with neurological & visual development of fetus
  • Liver damage
  • Obesity
  • Osteoporosis
  • Type II diabetes

3. MSG:MSG  — Monosodium  glutamate is a chemical (an excitotoxin) that has been associated with reproductive  disorders,  migraine  headaches, permanent  damage  to  the  endocrine  system  leading  to obesity and other serious disorders. It is linked to reduced fertility. MSG is used in many foods as a taste enhancer.

4. SODIUM NITRATE: This is a preservative, coloring, and flavoring commonly added to bacon, ham, hot dogs, luncheon meats, smoked fish and corned beef. Studies have linked eating  it  to  various  types of cancer.

5. REFINED SOY:When it comes to soy, much of what we read and hear about comes from the people who market it. Before you mix up a soy shake, snack on a soy protein bar or pour yourself a glass of soy milk consider this: unfermented, processed soy inhibits the thyroid, is deficient in amino acids, is toxic to infants and shrinks the brain.

There are some redeeming qualities to soy, however these are found primarily in fermented soy products like tempeh, miso, natto and soybean sprouts. If you want to get some health benefits from soy, stick to these four forms and pass on ALL processed soy milks, tofu, soy burgers, soy ice cream, soy cheese and other soy junk foods that are disguised as health foods.

6. WHITE SUGAR:Sugar is more addictive than cocaine! Sugar has a profound influence on your brain function and your psychological function.  When you consume excess amounts of sugar, your body releases  excess  amounts  of  insulin,  which  in  turn  causes  a  drop  in  your  blood  sugar, also known  as hypoglycemia.  In  addition,  sugar  is  pro-flammatory  damages  skin  collagen  and  promotes  wrinkles, increases  your appetite, depletes  your body of B vitamins, causes  joint degeneration, ADHD and other behavior disorders, stimulates cholesterol synthesis and weight gain. Opt for a healthier alternative such as stevia.

7. SODIUM CHLORIDE: Commercial table salt is highly processed and full of aluminum, chemicals and additives which are toxic. Opt for a healthier version such as Bragg’s amino acids or Celtic sea salt (light pink, grey or beige color).

8. ASPARTAME, SPLENDA, SWEET N LOW, EQUAL: Aspartame is an artificial, chemical sweetener found in many foods and beverages including desserts, gelatins, protein powder, low calorie foods, drink mixes and sodas. It may cause cancer or neurological problems, such as dizziness, migraine headaches, weight  gain,  increased  appetite,  bloating,  rashes  or  hallucinations.  Aspartame poisoning  mimics symptoms of MS.  NutraSweet is in over 7,000 foods!

Side effects:

  • Increased risk of Heart disease
  • Bloating and edema
  • Brain seizures
  • Cancer
  • Cravings
  • Headaches
  • Predispose you to Parkinson’s, Multiple Sclerosis and Alzheimer’s Disease
  • Rashes and hives
  • Weight gain – results in obesity

9. FOOD COLORINGS: (Blue 1, 2; Red 3, 40; Green 3; Yellow 5, 6) There are food colorings still on the market linked to cancer in animal testing.  There is evidence that food coloring and food additives contribute to behavioral  problems  in  children, lead to lower  IQ, hyperactivity, ADHD, depression, hormonal dysfunction, migraines and cancer.

Red 40 is found in soda pop, candy, gelatin desserts, pastries, pet food and sausage.  It is linked to hyperactivity disorders and migraines.

Red 3 is used to dye cherries and found in fruit cocktail, ice cream candy and baked goods. It has been shown to cause thyroid tumors in rats. This harmful artificial color causes cancer and changes in brain chemistry. Read the list of ingredients in your child’s cough syrup (artificial color).

Green 3 is a potential allergen and has been linked to bladder cancer. Green 3 is added to candy, mint jelly, cereals and beverages.

Blue 1 and 2 are found in beverages, candy, baked goods, cereals and pet food have been linked to allergies and cancer.

Yellow  5  is  the most  notable  artificial  color  because  it  causes  the most  immediate  allergic reaction  in people sensitive to salicylates such as aspirin.

Yellow 6 has been linked to tumors of the adrenal gland and kidney. Yellow 6 is added to beverages, sausage, gelatin, baked goods and candy.

Take home message – Stay away from any product listing an ingredient with a color plus a number.

10. PROCESSED/REFINED WHEAT AND GLUTEN:Refined grains are void of nutrients, disrupt insulin levels and are highly allergenic for many individuals. Wheat and gluten have adverse health effects for approximately 80% of the population. Gluten is a protein found combined with starch in the endosperm of grains, notably wheat, rye and barley.

Gluten intolerance/sensitivity is severely misdiagnosed or under-diagnosed – one estimate says that 97% of all sufferers don’t know they have the disease due to unfamiliarity with it among U.S. physicians.

Signs and symptoms of gluten intolerance: The ultimate effect of this hidden wear and tear is the slow destruction of the healthy mucosa, or lining tissue of the small intestine causing an autoimmune response that’s similar to an allergic reaction. In some cases there may be symptoms in childhood such as allergies, asthma, anemia, reoccurring infections, a constant upset stomach or milk intolerance.

Other symptoms are nasal and throat mucous, feeling of food sitting in stomach, bloating, gas, diarrhea with periodic constipation, mental fogginess and skin rashes.  In severe cases, as with Celiac disease, there can be seizures, psychosis, violent behavior and withdrawal from self.

Eliminate gluten-products for 3-4 weeks and tell me how great you feel.

It’s important to form a habit of reading the list of ingredients on ALL products! Focus on eating whole, fresh foods. This is the best way to stay away from toxic, harmful ingredients. Choose to shop at  your local Farmer’s Markets, Trader Joe’s and Whole Foods. Everything with a Trader Joe’s label sold at the supermarket and all products at Whole Foods are free of the controversial chemicals.

Copyright © 2009 Paula Owens

Paula  is  a  holistic  practitioner,  nutritionist,  fitness  expert  and weight  loss  coach.  She  is  the  author  of THE POWER OF 4 – Your Ultimate Guide Guaranteed  to Change Your Body and Transform Your Life. Paula  holds  a  Masters  degree  in  Holistic  Nutrition,  a  Bachelors  degree  in  Kinesiology  and numerous professional health and fitness certifications.

Visit Paula at: www.PaulaOwens.com

Click Here to see how to win Paula’s new book from Strong Mothers.

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Most of you know that my youngest recently celebrated a birthday. One of her favorite gifts was from my older sister + her family. They sent her a “decorate-it-yourself” piggy bank and 7 dollars.

Perfect gift for an ar-tiste.

 

Here’s the front. Isn’t it cute?

 

Just to be safe… she included instructions an invitation. (See “money goes in here”).

 

Then she showed me this. Hmmmm….

 

Happy Parenting!

Love,

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Among my many roles (mother, wife, business owner, science teacher, runner, blogger, friend), I am a high school softball pitching coach. I have been giving pitching lessons for over 20 years and have probably worked with at least a thousand pitchers. A lot of what I do at this point is by intuition, as my scope is broad and my group of comparison is large. I can tell if a pitcher has natural potential, how much to push her, which pitches she is ready to learn, and how to make her faster, more consistent, and mentally tough.

I was having a conversation with another coach a few days ago, and I was stating how important it is for a pitcher to be on the mound in a game and go through a tough situation. Sometimes, as soon as pitchers start getting “rocked” (softball lingo for when the other team is getting lots of hits), coaches will take them out of the game in order to keep from losing or to keep the score from creeping ever upward.

If pitchers know that if the game gets close or if they’re not pitching consistently then they will be taken out of the game, then they will never learn how to work through it. Or how to get better.  Or how to get past it. The pitchers should know what that situation feels like so that they can tell themselves that they never want to feel like that again. And we need pitchers to learn how to do all of this if they are to ever be the best that they can be.

Not all pitchers will automatically analyze the situation and determine how to get better, or will they realize that the “bad feeling” can motivate them to improve. The coach is an important key to learning these lessons. Coaches help to connect the dots, point out the areas of improvement (and create opportunities for doing so), and provide continual support.

Parenting is a lot like coaching. We sometimes have to sit back and watch our kids make mistakes when we could easily step in and “take them out of the game.” I’m constantly amazed at the helicopter parents who text their kids during the day, check every little 5-point homework grade on the online grading system, bring them their lunch when they forget (even though there’s a cafeteria at school)…and more!

When we don’t let our kids go through the tough situations, they never learn how to get out of it themselves. The kids miss out on a self-esteem building opportunity of rising up after falling.

Of course, the kids need their “coaches” through all of this. Kids need their parents to teach them how to get better from the situation, how to help them to improve their situation, and always always always provide support.

I’m learning daily how to transfer my coaching skills to parenting. Sometimes it’s not as easy when it’s my own child, but I keep rising after each fall. (Thanks Mom, Dad, and all my former coaches.)

Share with us a time when you let your child so through something hard and along the way taught him or her how to rise after falling.

Love,

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Book Giveaway!

by Nif on February 8, 2010

I’m SOOOOO excited about this book giveaway!

The Power of 4 by Paula Owens is a terrific book, and

we’re giving away FOUR of them!

After getting back into a routine in January, February is the perfect month to focus on your own health and wellness. We salute you by giving away four of these terrific books! You will enjoy learning from Paula, as she is a practitioner- she walks the walk and will give you  tons of terrific tips to jump start or re-charge your healthy lifestyle. 

Paula’s real. And practical. And smart. You can read my interview with Paula here. She has had a busy January, including a book signing and being interviewed for Underground Wellness on blogtalk radio. Click here to listen to the interview with Paula.  

The Power of 4 has had an impressive list of reviewers including Dr. Mark Houston, MD MS FACP FAHA author of “What Your Doctor May Not Tell You About Hypertension” and  Todd Durkin, Trainer of the San Diego Chargers. See the complete list at her site: http://www.paulaowens.com/powerof4.html.

Here’s the easy way to enter to win your own copy of The Power of 4:

Leave a comment to this post with one thing you do to practice healthy living.

Deadline to enter is Sunday, February 14th at 5pm CST. (Happy Valentine’s Day!)

Four winners will be chosen at random and announced Monday on this post.

Good luck! 

To your health,

 

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All mothers pick and choose their battles.  Being a mother is a thankless, draining job sometimes – more so at some ages than others.  When do today’s mothers declare war?  On what do they declare war?

As you may know, I’m the only non-mother blogger for Strong Mothers.  Although I take no children home, I feel like a mother to the 700 children at my middle school.  Coach……”I forgot my locker combination, I don’t have my clothes, someone stole my…, he’s being mean to me, she’s looking at me.”

This week at my school we “Declared War” on chewing gum in our gym.  Our community has entrusted us with a $32 million dollar school, and we intend to keep it nice and clean.  We started the year by nicely asking them to spit their gum out.  The only problem is that they seem to be spitting it on our gym floor.  This means WAR.

I began to wonder what brings a mother to declare war.  As a teacher and a coach, I want to share a few things in the next few blog posts that I see every day in middle school that are worth a mother’s energy.

Responsibility – The sooner children learn to take responsibility for their actions and their belongings, the happier we all will be.

Our kids like to “rig” their lockers.  ”Rigging it” means they leave their locker on the last number, so they don’t have to work the combination each time.  Essentially, they are being lazy.  They can get into their locker quickly, but so can everyone else.  They also forget their combination, because they don’t work it daily.  They start the year thinking  ”Someone stole my……” gets them off the hook.  I always tell them, “If it was not in your locker and locked then YOU let them steal it.  Your stuff is not my responsibility”.  Some listen to our warnings at the beginning of the year about “rigging”, but many have to learn the hard way.

We have several kids at school whose moms we see just about every day if not more than once a day. Recently I asked a girl, who habitually called her mom to bring her forgotten stuff to school, “Is your mom sitting at home just waiting for you to call?” Her response was, “She doesn’t do anything all day anyway.”  Oh, how I wished that her precious mother had heard that.  If the consequence of being irresponsible isn’t painful, then why will they ever work towards responsibility?

At school we learned to charge push-ups for forgotten locker combinations.  We learned quickly with 700 children that if didn’t train them to be responsible, they’d train us to be their crutch.

Mothers, how have you declared “WAR” on making your children responsible?

Comment below or e-mail me at LisaVickery@strongmothers.com

Love,

Lisa

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Last summer I reconnected with a dear friend who I’ve known since the 7th grade, Ronda McCaul Walker.  Over lunch, we talked about old times and raising children.  After hearing her down-to-earth ideas about motherhood along with her quick wit, I begged her to write for StrongMothers.  She is the Strong Mother of 4 children – ages 11,9,2.5, and 1.5.  Thank you, Ronda!

 

Guest Blogger, Ronda McCaul Walker and family

Since having children I have often contemplated the role of nature vs. nurture in the child-rearing process. There are numerous behaviors that have manifested themselves in my children that I have certainly never taught them, then there are many that I want to believe I have instilled.

For example, when I had my first baby I was intent to train him to be a good sleeper. My doctor, as well as the books by all of the ‘experts’, assured me that I could indeed train my child to sleep. Sure enough, when Eli was 5 weeks old he slept through the night for the first time and not long after that it became the routine. It was not easy, it did not ‘just happen’ but my consistent efforts worked and I was elated. However, to a person, when I told people what an easy baby I had they told me “JUST WAIT, your next one will be crazy, wild, impossible…nobody has two good babies”. This was discouraging news because I had gotten quite used to my happy, healthy, good-sleeping baby. When I expressed my concern to my pediatrician, he assured me that if I did all the same things with baby number two that I did with baby number one I would have another good sleeper.

When Eli was 6 months old I got pregnant with baby number two. (Yes, that news led to a temporary meltdown but that is for another posting). My beautiful daughter Margaret Jane was born just after Eli had turned one year old. We brought our little princess home from the hospital and after 3 weeks she slept through the night for the first time. I felt a sense of confidence (and relief) unparalleled in my adult life. My little princess began sleeping through the night on a regular basis at about 5-6 weeks old. Nurture came through in flying colors and to date I have proved all of the critics wrong. You can, indeed, have two good babies. I have two sweet, smart babies that both sleep through the night – don’t hate me.

Now that my babies are 2.5 and 1.5, I am exploring the nature vs. nurture concept all anew. On the one hand, Eli turned into a terrible two as if some mystical force gripped him around May 2008. Whining, temper tantrums, complete stubbornness. I had not taught my son to fall out on the floor, kick his legs, and demand his way. (or had I?) And I certainly did not teach him to yank every toy from the hands of his baby sister or knock her to the ground if he perceived she was getting more than him. Nature had taken over, and it was ugly.

Earlier today, as I was exasperated after a long, tiring day of chasing around a one and two year old my daughter fell down and bumped her head and began to wail. Without missing a beat my son ran over to her and wrapped his arms around her, kissed her on the cheek and said, “it’s okay baby, I’m sorry you are hurt”.

Nature or Nurture?

Or how about this one: Eli just yanked a toy away from his baby sister and shoved her to the ground. Jason looked at him and asked with a half sarcastic tone, “Now, Eli, what would Jesus do?” Eli looked at his daddy and said, “Jesus would paddle my butt”.

Let’s call that nurture.

Love,

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A couple of Saturdays ago, I went on a 12-mile run. I tell you this to let you know that I had 2 hours to do nothing but think about this. :)  As I was running, I thought about all the lessons I have learned from running, and compared it to my life.  I wanted to share it with you here.

  1. When you meet someone on the sidewalk going in the opposite direction, make room for them to pass. So often we pass by people in our busy daily walk that we don’t “see” them, or if we do, we just keep going without giving them particular attention. Several times on my run I passed by people who were walking or running with a partner, side by side on the sidewalk, and no one moved to make room for me to pass. I think it’s good manners and just plain considerate to make room for others.
  2. Your mind can make you believe you can’t do something when you are able. During the first mile, I fight a battle in my mind. It wants to convince me that I can’t make it that day, it tells me how hard it is, it reminds me of all the other things I could/should be doing instead of running.  After about the first mile to mile and a half, my mind quiets as if it realizes that my body is going to win. There are times when I am facing a particularly hard challenge in life that my mind will go ahead and try to convince me that I won’t be successful or try to distract me from what I want/need to be doing. Since I have experienced this in my runs and understand that we as humans try to stay at equilibrium and comfortable in what we know to be true. If we attempt something that will take us out of our comfort zone, even though our mind tells us in the beginning that we can’t, we don’t need to listen to it, because when we press forward, our mind accepts it and we realize that we can do/accomplish whatever we want.
  3. Prepare for long runs. I knew I had my 12-mile run coming up, so all week I thought about it. I run a 6-mile loop, part trails and part sidewalks through neighborhoods and shopping villages. To run 12 miles, I run the loop twice. On Friday, I visualized myself doing the long run. I saw myself at the finish line, I saw myself finishing the first loop and restarting the second one. I really tried to feel the sense of accomplishment that I knew I was going to feel at the end of my run. I never asked myself IF I could do it – I only told myself that I COULD do it. In life, when there is something particularly challenging coming up, it’s important to prepare mentally and emotionally for it. Visualizing the process as well as a successful result will produce great rewards!
  4. Runners don’t fit a certain type. Where I run, there are lots of people who run or walk the loop, and they are all different shapes, sizes, and ages. I’m thankful that I get to see this, because it reminds me that I don’t have to be a certain “type” or fit a mold to be a “runner.” No runner on the path was trying to be anything else except for his or her best self as a runner. Sometimes in life we think that success belongs to another person, that “certain people” are right for certain jobs/circumstances/rewards. I have learned that there’s not a “type” for success. I have also learned that other people sometimes want us to be something different and fit a certain type. Running reminds me that I can only be my best ME.
  5. A small, kind act goes a long way. You may be thinking,How does this fit in with her running metaphor?” Here’s how: On the running loop, there is a gas station at the halfway point. At this gas station, there are coolers of water and cups set out for runners to take a water break. I don’t know who does this (gas station employees? local running club?), but it is a refreshing stop and fills a need for many. It is a simple reminder to do kind things for others without recognition or self-promotion.

 

What are your thoughts on this? What are your own analogies?

Hugs,

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